> Is my grandad right? I'm weak:'(?

Is my grandad right? I'm weak:'(?

Posted at: 2015-04-20 
hi John,

your grandad doesnt say you are WEAK by physical appearance or in the inner aspect. He just means that bein strong isnt about standing on other people but instead bein strong is the ability of a person to feel how others feel through the HEART and to make decisions that will benefit yourself and others using your BRAIN. It isnt always about brawns and skills, sometimes it takes wits and understanding to be able to stand out above the rest, then only can you say you are STRONG. You dont only stand up for yourself but for the welfare of others.

Hope this helps =)

mark (ive been in your shoes once upon a time)

I think your granddad is trying to say that you should stand up for yourself and not let anyone tell you who you are. I understand that you dont like people walking all over you and that doesnt mean your weak. Hes saying it doesnt matter if youre a big football player as long as youre kind and smart

Life isnt about looks or whatever. Its about being positive and taking risks. He wasnt trying to be rude. He was trying to help by saying life is hard but you gotta be strong and ask and do things you dont wanna do some ti mes, but you just gotta do it. Good luck

Be confident. Be proud. A wise person once said "whatever doesn't kill you it will make you stronger" Now stop being a wuss and go out there and enjoy the world!

P*ssy

I told my grandad that I am scared of going out and don't like people walking over me.

He says don't be scared of anyone and don't let anyone take you for a mug and man up!

He goes it's not about how tall or strong you are it's about having a heart and brain?

What does he mean? I'm 18