If you don't have the balls to fight, prepare yourself for a long, painful life of victimhood.
Given your age, you'll get your *** kicked left and right by the other boys, and you'll always be that kid who got *insert method of beating, by whothefuckever*.
Probably youtubed. Millions of hits.
Now, all of that aside, the only thing here that is REALLY important, is that you never allow anyone to fckin have their way with you. I suppose you can walk away from the usual sht-talk, but if you stand there and let someone swing on you, you must not give a fck about your own well-being.
I'm sure that's not really true, which means you gotta make a few changes.
Kill or be killed, as someone once put it. They were right; and I'll tell you something else, it's much better to give, than to receive ;]
you just need to throw it. Just swing. You dont even have to hit him, but once you get the initial punch out the rest will follow.
Also shadow box just to get your mind in the place where it throws punches.
On a final note if the other party let you go after one kick they probably weren't looking for a fight so you dont really need to punch them.
Imma boxer and i will not tell u to join a boxing gym..ur problem is u just can't throw a punch when 3-4 peoples beating u this is because u get so tired and feared during fight u felt like sleeping.it's natural thing.. solution for problem is simple..Get a punching bag at home and beat it upto 30 mins everyday for 1 week.after that u'll definately feel confident and not feared in smashing someones face and feel less tired and confident,courageous..trust me dude u can't feel energetic and courageous when u'r tired..so increase u'r endurance,stamina little more than ur enemies...
Maybe it's that when your adrenaline rushing subconsciously you feel you could hurt someone very badly. I know this is the case with me and when I become infuriated with brothers or others I want to bash their heads in so bad I can literally see myself doing it. But I don't want to hurt them because I've been brainwashed to believe it's wrong. It's not about courage it's about letting go of your remorse. I snapped once and was suffocating brother I didn't care at that point his life meant nothing it was after I stopped that I realized what I was doing. What I'm capable of so I hold it in until the wrong person gets me on a bad day.
Watch We're The Miller Jason Sudeikis knows a way to give you the courage to do anything. If you seen the movie you know what I mean 1,2,3 :)
Hey, I'm 15 & i want to know how do i get the courage to throw a punch in a fight. I enjoy a calm lifestyle , but am really athletic. The problem is, due to the people i'm around (my friends are prone to starting conflicts, and my brother starts some as well), i always get dragged into physical altercations. I usually talk my way out of them (and since i have an athletic body , people usually back out )but lately things started escalating . I've been in about 3-4 fights this month and in 3 of them, i just defended myself , and let my friends take over, but the 4th one, i was caught alone, and i couldn't throw a punch for some reason...my heart was beating quickly, but i just couldn't do it... what i ended up doing was throw a strong kick ( as mentioned , i play soccer so i'm really good at strong & precise kicks) and after that, the other party let me go & i walked off. I know i have to power to throw good attacks, but the willpower just isn't there. Any help is appreciated. Thanks.
