The choice is totally depend on. with whom do you want to celebrate you birthday. with Friends or Family.
So rewind and calculate your birthdays memories and then choose the one who will make your birthday the best then previous birthdays.
Okay so my 21st birthday is coming up and im not really sure on what i want to do for it. I can either stay in my town with my friends and go to a bar or restaurant or go to michigan with some of my family and drink there