If alcohol is going to be served, then there should be way for those that do indulge to get home safely. You don't want'any accidents attributed to someone who attended being intoxicated behind the wheel of a car.
If the attendees will be coming directly from the prom, then having a bonfire with people in formal wear is really not a good idea(unless, your attendees will be changing their clothes before coming).
The sites below may give you some ideas:
http://www.party-ideas-galore.com/after-...
http://voices.yahoo.com/party-ideas-afte...
http://prom.about.com/od/formalfaq/a/Aft...
I agree with the get home safety thing, but if your gonna drink you may aswell enjoy what you drink, give this a read :) http://www.squidoo.com/ten-simplest-cock...
I'm hosting an after party at my house and about 30 people are coming. There will be alcohol but like 1/2 will probably drink(were not crazy). Any ideas on what to do? I'm thinking of blasting music in one of the rooms and having a bonfire in the back yard. Any other ideas?