I guess you do not live in the USA, because none of you would be old enough to drink alcohol and believe me you all would be proofed. Now as far as those party bags go, I would guess that all your friends do something like the party bag thing because most people stop with the party bags at around 13 or 14, then use them at their weddings.

If you are old enough to drink, why not just use the nips (miniature bottles) and tie a ribbon around the bottles, that way you won't have a bag to fill.

We don't do bags, we literally build our own makeshift food and drink bars every time :)

While on foot, though, moving around, we probably wouldn't want to carry a gift bag. No offense, but where I live, gift bags are not in style and would in fact be frowned upon. Here, those are more like something a mom gives her kid.

The girls bag could have some toiletries in it- something like a little bar of soap, bath crystals, face masks, nail polish, nail foils/gems etc

A pen, small bag of tablet, chocolates, bookmark, magnets, funny badges, key ring

I'm trying to plan party bags to go with my birthday meal and I'm stumped. We're all going to be 20 and the youngest will probably be 18.

The whole plan was to go for a meal the first night and go out drinking the second night with maybe a larger group.

My best idea was miniature bottles of spirits but then I'm stumped. It's more of an issue of putting the same things in everyone's bags or making the boys' bags different from the girls' bags.

So I just wanted to know if you have any ideas? If any girls, or guys, could say what would be appropriate for a girls bag that would be a great help, since I have no idea.