Wow, 14 years olds drinking where is the world leading to. Don't feel pressured into drinking. If you throw a good enough party people will have fun without it. I'm sure you'll have fun with 40 people that's loads! You could maybe hire a hall somewhere and have food and drink set up and just load music playing? Or it could be a themes party? Anything you like really!
Get a bong and buy $50 worth of weed
14th most of my friends drink and stuff but my parents wouldn't allow that , I'm having about 40 people and have no idea what to do , all I can think of is music , I don't want really kiddy stuff cuz like every one acts way older now :/ but not drinking so what should I do!!?