If you can't afford a party your kid should understand and be appreciative of what they do have. As a parent you do not need to be concerned about disappointing their friends. Your job is to raise your kid to be a good person not a spoiled brat. Giving into all their demands will cause them to grow up feeling entitled. So my advice is to tell your kid and their friends to Shut their mouths and buy them an ice cream cake.

If you don't want to spend a lot of money then do simple but fun things such as: make daisy chains for jewellery, have cheese and pineapple sticks, Hawaiian pizza with lemonade ect. Get them to wear a swimming costume or come in grass skirts or something, play games like coconut shy, limbo ect. Have music playing from YouTube or something so they can make up a dance routine. And you could bake her a cake shape like a flower or something like that. Decorations could be anything from paper chains, daisy chains, flowers dotted around, or well anything really just use your imagination and you can always get the girls to help you decorate before

You're going to throw the best birthday party ever !



Keeping everyone fed & entertained is the key to having a successful party.



Great ideas such as party games can be a blast once everyone is involved and having fun.



Check these sites out. I've used all of these for many, many parties : They are really cool and offer lots of fantastic ideas !





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You can also make it memorable and fun by having everyone create their own hand painted & glitter t-shirts ! Try to get everyone's correct size and get plain white ones. It's best to do outdoors. Each of your guests will have a unique and creative lasting memory to keep from your special day for quite sometime ! Just Google all the supplies you'll need and have a blast !





My daughter's best friend went to visit her a few weeks ago and brought her t-shirt's that she created when they were 5, 8 and 16 years old.



They both are 28 today ~ what a wonderful moment they had to rekindle all those wonderful memories from their past.

I think you should do it for the kid this sounds like a family problem but I am just saying my op ion and if you are get Hawaiian skirts and Hawaiian punch just don't go to Hawaii to have it have the party like at your beach or a pool or in a little fun place I hope this solved your problem.

I think simple flower necklace and limbo games etc will be fine with pineapple juice and lemonade.

Just get a swimming pool and play music and that..

my child really wants a hawaiian party but i don`t want to spend to much money but i cant let her and her friends down . i really want to make it great with lots of decorations what should i do help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!