Jessica - a little bit unless you ask that donations be made in your name to your favorite charity instead of gifts.
Happy Birthday
Not at all. What would be "sketchy" about it? If you want to throw your own party, why would you let anyone stop you?
It's not sketchy at all, I see nothing wrong with it.
I see nothing wrong with that at all. There's no reason why you shouldn't have a party if you want one.
I was told it was and if yes why?