Form you own close group of friends and dont worry about the "popular kids". you r groups can be classmates, those from your religious group, and even your family and those in your neighborhood.
why not throw your own party and invite a bunch of people? then in turn they'll invite you
I won't do drugs but I am just wondering how to get invited to parties and how do I hang out with people more often and don't say no I am friends with some of the popular kids already.