Just let things go with the flow. Make sure you have lots of food. For games keep a deck or two of cards around just in case. It will be more fun if you worry less on the planning and focus on what will make you the happiest so you can enjoy the night.

You should just have a party with the theme of either Thomas the tank engine or Care Bears. They have recently proven to be just some of the most popular teenage birthday parties.

Since there is a bonfire, you probably don't need to plan too much, just have plenty of food to make over the fire (especially s'mores!).

You should have a party where you and all your friends just sit around the campfire telling stories as you continue on roasting marshmallows.

i'm thirteen going fourteen, and i'm planning a party for my birthday which is in about a fortnight. i know i want the party to be at night time, have both girls and boys and we're having a bonfire. i have a space up the back which is basically an undercover area with mats, so i'll have a place to put food and stuff. i want us to play spotlight, but i don't know what else we could do. i know teenagers don't really like organised games, and please keep in mind it's winter so being in the pool isn't really an option. help?