you could do something like go to a movie, laser tag, paintball, cookie fight, water guns... it depends on what you like to do. i went to one party where we had a pie in the face Competition, the person who could smash the pie the best into the birthday GIl or boy face wins. its all in what you think is cool.

I did a San Francisco scavenger hunt for my 14th. It was really fun here is what you do.



1.Go to a mall or city with a lot of interesting things to do and see that are walking distance from each other.



2.Have your friends brake in to small groups.



3. Each team has a number or color and bag with a list of things they must (a) fined, (b) take pictures of or with, and (c) buy, a camera or camera phone, a map outlining where the boundaries are (ie major road ways,etc.) and where to meet back up, and some cash to buy things on the list with. Like a mood ring for the birthday girl or a little gift or something.



4. Make sure every group has a cell phone with everyone else's numbers in case they get lost.



5. Then say "go" and see which team can get the most amount of stuff on the list and get back in time. 6. See what every one got and the pictures they took.



This was a chaotic plan but it worked out well and was tones of fun not only for me but for every one else too. Also, I was able to invite boys and girls. We had 4 hours to complete this challenge but it seemed shorter. After we had cake and pizza at restaurant near our meeting spot where we shared the funny parts of our adventures.

How about an arcade like Dave & Busters?

Ice skating, or roller blading?

Its my 14th in a few weeks and i really want a good party but i have no idea what i want to do. I don't want to stay at home or do anything like that so no sleepovers or anything. Also, all my friends are having parties at restaurants so i would like to do something different. i would love love love if i could invite some boys as well, so nothing too girly. Any help would be great ahahah xxx