> Age difference?

Age difference?

Posted at: 2015-04-20 
my bf is 39 and i am 21. is this a big difference does age matter?

Its totally depends on you.Age difference doesn't matter.Fact is how you lead your life happy together.If your bf loves you as his life you may take decision stay with him.Don't think that when u become 40 he will 60.say any one of a partner G (G-22 &B-25)get an accident/disease and laid to bed.after a few days the B left the G for her illness. so where go your age consideration.

You must think about a perfect partner who love you even his last breath.

Yes there is a big difference of Age, you must try some another between 23-27 yrs bf

It's up to you. Does it feel okay to you? Are you happy? I'm 24 and probably wouldn't be interested in dating a 39 year old, but that's just me.

It's your life, do what you want to do.

Not really, but do u think in ten more years when he has that loose skin and old man balls you'll still like him?

I dated a guy 15 years older than me once, and I realized how silly it was. It starts getting creepy where he seems like the guy getting older desperately trying to cling to his youth by bagging a young girlfriend. Thing is, he's already done a lot of experiencing in his life, and you've just begun. Wouldn't you want someone that can have those experiences with you instead? Also, think about it long term. When you get older, he will start to slow down in life much sooner than you will, and you could come to resent that age difference.

Yes, its a big age difference. Just think, he was 20, in college or working, having his fun social life when you entered the world.

When he's 60, you'll be 40.

Think: why are you posting this question; your question is one which only you should answer. You're looking for opinions now. And you always will until YOU resolve this within yourself.

Normally when I notice an age gap of this magnitude between couples I curiously wonder who is taking advantage of who. Sometimes the older man is playing on naivity of the younger woman and using her for sex. Sometimes the younger woman is playing on the lonelyness of the older man and taking advantage him for financial gain. Of course that's just me being a judgmental prick. If you're happy then age should not matter.

maybe,he is 20 years older than you,your thought is not same,but if you love with each other,nothing is impossible

The answer is in the taste or taste is in the pudding. If you like it you like it.

my bf is 39 and i am 21. is this a big difference does age matter?